Along Our Way

What a way to end a summer! We Offenburgers were the guests on a late-summer weekend at the lake house of our friends Joe and Cindy Connolly. The Connollys live in Council Bluffs and commute many weekends to their get-away place on a private lake just south of Columbus, Nebraska. It was a real “kick-back” weekend with lots of sunshine, fun boating, good food and plenty of time to read.
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A conversation

LIVING WITH CANCER

with the Offenburgers

Chuck Offenburger was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins follicular lymphoma cancer on July 10, 2009, had six months of chemotherapy & is now doing well in a “maintenance” program. Carla Offenburger underwent surgery on April 26, 2010, for removal of a jaw tumor which was found to contain adenoid cystic carcinoma cancer. She underwent six weeks of follow-up radiation in June and July, and continues under close medical observation. We post updates frequently here, including brief insights from Chuck, Carla and at least one of you readers.

“Carla, if you were standing here I’d hug you. This is such a ton of stress and scheduling for anyone but then add that you are recouping yourself and it is nearly overwhelming. Yet here you are forging ahead.”

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Carla’s sister & brother-in-law Chris and Tony Woods, of Des Moines, were at the farm on Sunday, August 22, helping Carla do the lawn mowing and other yard work that we’ve struggled to keep up with lately, with all our medical appointments. The Woodses brought along their 18-month-old granddaughter Ari, who was a delight watching all the action from the porch with Chuck, catching up on her reading and then getting a moment on the lawn tractor seat!
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Chuck Offenburger's
new book on sports
legend Gary Thompson
gets excellent reviews


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''GARY THOMPSON: All-American'' is the new, 352-page biography of one of the state’s genuine sports icons. From 1950-’53 Gary Thompson led the Roland Rockets to high school sports glory in basketball and baseball, giant-killers from one of Iowa’s small schools. Then he led the Cyclones at Iowa State from 1953-’57, becoming the college’s first two-sport All-American. He’s had major success in broadcasting and business, from his home base in Ames. And he and his wife Janet have a family as solid as they come. “I’m the luckiest guy around,” Thompson says.


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Along Our Way

My View from the Porch

Listening to the conversations of Yale students stretches where your mind’s edges usually are

By CARLA OFFENBURGER
September 19, 2007
NEW HAVEN, CONNECTICUT

WHEN YOU FIND YOURSELF IN BIG PLACES, YOU FIND YOURSELF THINKING BIG! My husband Chuck and I are spending time in New Haven, Connecticut, where son Andrew, daughter-in-law Maria and little granddaughter Lindsay Lee make their home – right smack in the middle of downtown, close to Yale University and close to plenty of diversity, green space and coffeehouses. (By Andrew’s count, in the square mile around their condo, there are 10 coffeehouses, three of them Starbucks, and all seem busy all the time!)

On one of our first days here, we walked graduate student Andrew to one of his Yale classes, “Memory and Orality in African History.” He then pointed us toward Yale’s Sterling Memorial Library and a couple of other notable campus landmarks, and sent us on a little self-guided tour of one of the nation’s finest universities, one of the storied Ivy League schools. We were like two kids in a candy store.

And I am not making up this next part. The first conversation we overheard as we were gawking at the many gargoyles on the interior sidewalls of the Exhibit Hall in Sterling Library was this: “Can you imagine? Living on the edge of contradiction?” We nearly giggled out loud as we glanced over our shoulders, seeing two young men, probably of graduate student age, perhaps junior faculty, having a very animated chat as they walked through the hall.

Andrew and Maria Offenburger (left), Carla Offenburger with Lindsay Offenburger in the stroller, under the sculpture ''On High'' in a federal plaza near their condo home in downtown New Haven. The striking and colorful sculpture of rolled steel, by sculptor Alexander Liberman, soars to 44 feet tall. It was erected in 1979.

A few days later, on another of our walks around campus, we overheard what appeared to be two younger men, obviously undergraduates since one was wearing a ball cap cockeyed on his head, discussing the 19th century German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche as they walked into the bookstore. Said one to the other: “Nietzsche’s belief is that there is no morality, that the strongest make the morality.”

I suspect there are similar discussions happening on the Yale campus day after day.

But I should tell you, too, “Yale students can drink beer,” as the New Haven Register observed in an article the other day. We saw evidence of that last Thursday night about 10 p.m. when we were walking back to the condo after dinner at a wonderful Thai restaurant. Suddenly, it seemed, the whole Yale campus was emptying out, and the downtown bars were filling up. Mornings-after here in the bar district smell just like other campus-town bar scenes across the country – like stale beer.

YOU’VE GOTTA LOVE WHAT’S AVAILABLE TO DO IN A UNIVERSITY TOWN LIKE NEW HAVEN. Chuck and I have been talking how, if we lived in New Haven, we would never spend any time at home with all of the interesting lectures, concerts and events happening. Here’s a short list – all found in large advertisements in the Yale Daily News – of what we found ourselves wanting to do this week:

-- A reading by Anne Fadiman, who is Yale’s “Francis Writer in Residence” this year. She is author of “The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down” and “Ex Libris.” Her reading is from her new book “At Large and At Small,” which has already received this rave from National Public Radio: “She’s such a stellar writer that if she wrote about pencil shavings, you’d read it aloud to all your friends.”

-- The 2007 “Stavros Niarchos Lecture” featuring Mark Mazower, a professor of history at Columbia University, who is to speak on this topic: “The Virgin Mary and the Collapse of Ottoman Rule: Revolution on Tinos, 1821-1830.”

-- A program called “New Haven & The Constitution,” held as part of the “Constitution Hour” at Yale, saluting the 220th anniversary of our nation’s guiding document. The event was to include “commentary, a reading of excerpts from the Constitution and its Amendments, and a musical tribute.”

-- A fall reception welcoming “the community of International Students & Scholars at Yale,” with “food, music, & dancing!”

-- As part of the “Poynter Fellowship in Journalism,” the New York Times’ personal technology columnist David Pogue speaks at a “Master’s Tea” and then is presenting his “Mobile Gadget Show-and-Tell.”

And those were just the programs featured in the large advertisements – with the public invited to all of them. Now, how enriching is all of that? I think you could probably get a bit of Yale education every day here and never have to pay a dime in tuition.

BUT THE BEST PART OF NEW HAVEN IS LITTLE LINDSAY LEE OFFENBURGER. Oh, how hard it was to wait! Granddaughter Lindsay Lee was born clear back on July 9, and it wasn’t until last week that we got to pick her up and hold her. What a joy that was. And what a joy she is.

Everyone has been telling me how great being a grandmother will be. They were right, because when you get to hold your granddaughter, and snuggle with her, hear her cry and watch her diligent parents take care of her every need so lovingly, you realize what a precious thing grandparenting will indeed be.

Lindsay Lee Offenburger and Grandma Carla Offenburger.

I figure by the time we see Lindsay in Iowa at Thanksgiving, she’ll be able to reach out and grab things, her smiles will be bigger and brighter, and she just might be letting all of us sleep all night.

I’ve been reading books to her, taking her on long walks in the fresh crisp fall New England air, and generally holding her every chance I get. What a precious baby – the cutest one in the room I always tell her! And I bet you think the same about your grandbaby, too.


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